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When I tell people I'm a stay-at-home parent who also works from home as a writer and blogger, I often get that faraway dreamy gaze that seems to suggest I've reached the Top Level of the Parenting Game for managing to do what many parents dream of doing while on mat leave: figuring out a way to stay at home with the kids and make money.
Unfortunately, it's not always quite as idyllic as it sounds.
Don't get me wrong, I count my blessings (along with my hats) every single day. But that doesn't mean it's not a challenge. And, while I'm busy trying to keep track of everyone else's needs, my own needs often keep getting pushed further and further down the priority list...
I'm doing it. I'm taking you behind the preschool/daycare teacher curtain today and letting you know how they always manage to get your child to clean up a huge classroom without complaint when, at home, they can never put a single thing away.
Are you struggling to understand your child and concerned that his or her language is not developing at the pace it should be? Wondering at what age they should be able to pronounce certain sounds? You sent your questions and our expert, Natalie Corbett Sampson, Speech Language Pathologist at the Family Development Centre, responded in this month's Ask The Expert post.
The internet is stuffed full of easy crafts for kids with instructions and an image of the perfect final product but should that final product really be the end goal? What if your child has a completely different vision and wants to take that carefully planned out craft into the complete unknown, adorable googly eyes be damned. Should you let them go wild or teach them to follow the directions? I was recently faced with this very dilemma...
When I heard about HelloFresh expanding to Halifax I was SUPER excited. Like telling all my friends: "GUYS, they deliver all the ingredients right to your DOOR. NO grocery store, NO wasted food!" It seemed too good to be true and that was the reaction of most of my friends. So I decided to test it out for you (I know, I'm a giver. It was all for you guys).
I asked some local bloggers for their best slow cooker meals and they didn't disappoint. We've been working our way through the list and they've all been fantastic so far. Bookmark this post so you have plenty of family-friendly options to make you look like a rock star at dinner time too.
I met with a sleep expert, Luanne Bruneau of BabySleepRight, on your behalf to have her review your questions and provide some advice. She tackled your questions about a newborn, a one year old and a toddler below with information that will be valuable to many parents dealing with the same issues.
As I was rushing around getting dinner on the table one evening I asked Miss M (5yo) if she could help set the table. When I arrived at the table I realized she'd given us all delicate bone china tea cups to drink from.
What do good parents do? Alison Smith, parenting coach, answers this question in a guest post today. She will be in Halifax on March 5 at Nurtured Products for Parenting giving a workshop for parents called "Beyond Time Outs." If you're available on that date and would like to attend, you can register today or read on for your chance to win a free ticket!
Learning how to follow the rules, and win and lose gracefully, are traits we want to instil in our children. It's okay to WANT to win and to feel upset about losing, but the key is to learn how to manage those emotions so that they don't affect the fun of competition or hurt someone else's feelings.
Is offering an incentive for good behaviour just lazy parenting? Or smart parenting? Is it bribing them or rewarding them? Is there even a difference?
A stellar performance of women at the Summer Olympics inspired many girls to take up new sports this year. But research by theWomen’s Sports Foundation shows that by the time they’re 14, girls are dropping out of sports at two times the rate as boys.
So, Halifax, you’ve got yourself a shiny new natural playground at the Dingle in Sir Sandford Fleming Park. But what is a natural playground? How does it help families appreciate nature more? Should we encourage kids to play on it? Is it even safe for kids to play on it?
I think it’s especially important to consider nutrition during the holidays when we are entertaining and party-going more than ever. Our little kids trust us to make smart choices for them and the Nutrition Education Facts Campaign gives you the tools to read the Nutrition Facts table properly.
I scroll through my social feeds and see all these "great ideas" and keep adding tradition after tradition to our life in order to feel like I'm giving my kids the best holiday I can...Kindness Advent Calendar? Right on! Make a new Christmas ornament with the kids each year? Oh yeah. Find matching Christmas jammies for the whole family? Sign me up! And YES to ALL THE REINDEER COOKIES!
When my daughter came home from primary telling me about the lockdown drill she had in gym class, I admit I had mixed feelings about it.
Miss M started asking about nicknames and how they work. She asked if she could ask other people to call her by her nickname and I said what I'm supposed to say, that, of course, she could. But I didn't really think she'd actually change her name...
Every two years I let my kids watch as much TV as they want in the hopes of inspiring them to follow their dreams.
I recently wrote an article about the value of little kid art with the help of the good folks at the Halifax Early Childhood School (HECS). They gave me some great - and easy to follow - tips about how parents can better understand and appreciate their little ones' art including a list of questions to ask your kids when they present you with their art that will stimulate discussion and, perhaps, help you figure out the true meaning behind their art.
Meal planning is a challenge for even the most organized person (I speak from experience here). Once you throw in jobs and kids and other responsibilities it gets even harder to find the time to plan your weekly meals and create a shopping list that ensures you have everything you need for the week. Then I figured out a system that simplified this process and the task became a BREEZE.
In January 2016 there were two reported incidents of children in the HRM being approached by strangers on their way to school. These alarming events reminded many parents that teaching children about “stranger danger” is something that needs to happen on an ongoing basis, however many parents aren't sure how to effectively have that conversation.
At twenty-one months old Ahava Bourque has a refined palate. She dines on Japanese, Indian and Lebanese cuisine, chooses carrots over cheesies and prefers her steak medium-rare.
Her mother, Alva Ortile-Bourque, credits Baby Led Weaning (BLW), the self-feeding method that bypasses purees, with her daughter’s love of food. She says the first solid food Ahava tried was steamed carrots.
I searched high and low for a big family calendar that we could see the whole month for that had both words and pictures for my pre-readers. I wanted something that would be able to be adapted as they got older.
Not finding anything that had the option to personalize it with images and words, I finally decided to cobble together my own version
Sleep is the holy grail of parenting. It bonds new parents together as they wearily commiserate about their lack of it; and pulls couples apart during yet another 2:00 a.m. argument over “whose turn it is.” But what happens after those newborn years when a good night’s sleep is still elusive? What do parents do when their two year old, or even ten year old, is still not sleeping well?
I donate or sell as much as I can but I always end up with items leftover that have no clear new home, especially with the introduction of Halifax’s new garbage rules. I went in search of an alternative way to dispose of clothes that can’t be reused and came across AFTeR.
I am spoiled with the kids' napping, I'm the first to admit it. Miss M turned four in September and STILL naps close to two hours a day. She has Quiet Time in the evening in her room and has lights out by 8:30/9. Mr M turned two in September and 1) still sleeps in his crib; and 2) still naps for two hours a day (though the days when he stays with my parents he won't nap). Better yet (and please don't hate me) for the last year they have NAPPED AT THE SAME TIME.
Last year, my children caught the Gimmes at Christmas. I don’t know how they got infected, but our normally sweet, polite, angelic (OK, that may be stretching it) children couldn’t get enough presents...So this year, we’ve changed the way we look at holiday gifting.